Fear is nothing more than an emotional response to a perceived threat (real or imagined - tangible or ethereal). It is an unpleasant, normal, natural sensation that is experienced by everyone in a lethal confrontation.
Fear only becomes a problem when we allow it to interfere with the ability to perform effectively. Otherwise, fear is an effective asset. It is the body’s way of protecting itself, speeding up adrenalin flow to the muscles, increasing sensitivity and awareness through a heightened situation.
An act of bravery and courage is not possessing a lack of fear
but the control of fear.
THE POWER OF FEAR
A Master went out for a walk with one of his pupils and pointed out a fox chasing a rabbit.
“According to an ancient fable
the rabbit will get away from the fox,” exclaimed the master.
“Not so,” replied the student. “The fox is faster.”
“But the rabbit will elude him”
insisted the master.
“Why are you so certain,” asked the student, perplexed.
“Because the fox is running for his dinner and the rabbit is running for its life,” answered the master.
“Keep It Real ” and " Fight to Survive"
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कुछ इस तरह से मैंने जीवन सजा लिया, हर बार एक नया चेहरा लगा लिया
तकदीर की लकीरे हाथो मे रुक गयी, कदमो की आह्टो से मंजिल ठहर गयी
अपनों की आरजू को हर पल मिटा दिया, हर बार एक नया चेहरा लगा लिया
गुमनाम ज़िन्दगी अनजान रास्ते, चलते है साथ साथ सदियों के फासले
जीने की आरजू ने मुखबिर बना दिया, हर बार एक नया चेहरा लगा लिया
अपनों का ना कभी गैरों का बन सका, सासों की आरजू का हिस्सा ना बन सका
मेरे वजूद को सबने भुला दिया, हर बार एक नया चेहरा लगा लिया...
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I am tough on myself
tougher on what i represent.
I break new grounds
touch the next emotion
what is the next level what to do; i get it myself
I create paths where I am normal
I keep challenging myself every moment
and the moment after that
Its not the easiest to live on earth
but it is the finest
I am the Next.
I am Chinmay Joshi
Monday, December 28, 2009
Sunday, July 19, 2009
Orkut Profile 8
The worst comment I got was "You cant better the best"
I got disturbed, got hurt, got demoralised, got pains.
It took me few days to realise the actual meaning.
"I dont have to better someone who is best. Rather I just have to better my earlier Best."
Hi Folks.. Count on me.. I am in!!!
I got disturbed, got hurt, got demoralised, got pains.
It took me few days to realise the actual meaning.
"I dont have to better someone who is best. Rather I just have to better my earlier Best."
Hi Folks.. Count on me.. I am in!!!
Sunday, April 12, 2009
Love
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
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I've missed more than 20 opportunities in my career. I've lost almost 6 years. 3 times, I've been trusted to take the winning strike and I missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life, but I stood firm.
I've never been afraid to fail.
My attitude is that if you push me towards something that you think is my weakness, then I will turn that perceived weakness into a strength.
..... and that is why I Succeed!
Some Learning I had:
1) Never look at the consequences of missing an opportunity... when you think about the consequences you always think of a negative result.
2) To be successful you have to be selfish, or else you never achieve. And once you get to your highest level, then you have to be unselfish. Stay reachable. Stay in touch. Don't isolate.
3) I work to win, whether during practice or a real life. And I will not let anything get in the way of me and my competitive enthusiasm to win.
4) I'm not out there sweating every day just to find out what it feels like to sweat.
5) My body could stand the crutches but my mind couldn't stand the Losing Battles.
6) You have to expect things of yourself before you can do them.
7) Always turn a negative situation into a positive situation.
8) I can accept failure, everyone fails at something. But I can't accept not trying.
9) Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.
Lastly, I always like to give Thanks.
Thanks to Parents for giving such wonderful Life.
To Friends who have always given me company at bad times.
To Wel Wishers, who have always been with me without disclosure.
To Life, which teaches me lots of things.
To God, who has trusted me and given me package of good stuffs.
Thanks to all who have reached to my heart!
Looking forward for more.
I've never been afraid to fail.
My attitude is that if you push me towards something that you think is my weakness, then I will turn that perceived weakness into a strength.
..... and that is why I Succeed!
Some Learning I had:
1) Never look at the consequences of missing an opportunity... when you think about the consequences you always think of a negative result.
2) To be successful you have to be selfish, or else you never achieve. And once you get to your highest level, then you have to be unselfish. Stay reachable. Stay in touch. Don't isolate.
3) I work to win, whether during practice or a real life. And I will not let anything get in the way of me and my competitive enthusiasm to win.
4) I'm not out there sweating every day just to find out what it feels like to sweat.
5) My body could stand the crutches but my mind couldn't stand the Losing Battles.
6) You have to expect things of yourself before you can do them.
7) Always turn a negative situation into a positive situation.
8) I can accept failure, everyone fails at something. But I can't accept not trying.
9) Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.
Lastly, I always like to give Thanks.
Thanks to Parents for giving such wonderful Life.
To Friends who have always given me company at bad times.
To Wel Wishers, who have always been with me without disclosure.
To Life, which teaches me lots of things.
To God, who has trusted me and given me package of good stuffs.
Thanks to all who have reached to my heart!
Looking forward for more.
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Orkut Profile 5
We all have inner demons to fight
We call these demons Fear, Hatred & Anger
If you dont conquer them then life of 100 years is a tragedy
If you do, life of a single day will be triumph
Be like water.
Water is the softest stuff in the world and it can fit into any container
Emotion can be the enemy
you see if you get into emotion, you can lose yourself
Be at One with your emotion
because the body always follows the mind
This is not about winning. this is about fact change
It isnt the size of strength that matters. Its focus.
You all have a "Chi" an inner spirit
Focus! there is nothing that can bend you.
Great Ideas make man what he want to be
You drop a pebble in a pond, it gives you ripples
and soon the ripples cross the whole pond.
The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of engagement
You should not think whether it end is victory or defeat
Let nature take its own call
Superstition is the name the ignorent give to their ignorance.
You are special now and thats why the demons want you
This demon is your inner fear. It doesnt matter how many man you defeat, If you dont conquer your inner demons, you will pass your demons unto your children.
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Who am I?
That is the age-old question asked by every man at one time or another.
Though he looks into a mirror and recognizes the face, though he knows his own name and age and history, still he wonders, deep down, Who am I?
Am I a giant among men, Master of all I survey or an ineffectual pygmy who clumsily blocks his own way?
Am I the self-assured gentleman with a winning style, the natural born leader who makes friends instantly or the frightened heart tiptoeing among strangers, who, behind a frozen smile trembles like a little boy lost in a dark forest?
Most of us yearn to be one, but fear we are the other. Yet we CAN be what we aspire to be.
Those who cultivate their natural instincts, who set their sights on the good, the admirable, the excellent and believe they can achieve it will find their confidence rewarded and in the process, they will discover the true identity of him who looks back from the mirror.
If you wish to win the biggest battle of life then do not break the smallest and simplest basics of life.
If you do not have what the common people has, then search inside, you must have got the most extra-ordinary thing which is unique to world.
Chinmay Joshi
We call these demons Fear, Hatred & Anger
If you dont conquer them then life of 100 years is a tragedy
If you do, life of a single day will be triumph
Be like water.
Water is the softest stuff in the world and it can fit into any container
Emotion can be the enemy
you see if you get into emotion, you can lose yourself
Be at One with your emotion
because the body always follows the mind
This is not about winning. this is about fact change
It isnt the size of strength that matters. Its focus.
You all have a "Chi" an inner spirit
Focus! there is nothing that can bend you.
Great Ideas make man what he want to be
You drop a pebble in a pond, it gives you ripples
and soon the ripples cross the whole pond.
The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of engagement
You should not think whether it end is victory or defeat
Let nature take its own call
Superstition is the name the ignorent give to their ignorance.
You are special now and thats why the demons want you
This demon is your inner fear. It doesnt matter how many man you defeat, If you dont conquer your inner demons, you will pass your demons unto your children.
-------------------------------------------------
Who am I?
That is the age-old question asked by every man at one time or another.
Though he looks into a mirror and recognizes the face, though he knows his own name and age and history, still he wonders, deep down, Who am I?
Am I a giant among men, Master of all I survey or an ineffectual pygmy who clumsily blocks his own way?
Am I the self-assured gentleman with a winning style, the natural born leader who makes friends instantly or the frightened heart tiptoeing among strangers, who, behind a frozen smile trembles like a little boy lost in a dark forest?
Most of us yearn to be one, but fear we are the other. Yet we CAN be what we aspire to be.
Those who cultivate their natural instincts, who set their sights on the good, the admirable, the excellent and believe they can achieve it will find their confidence rewarded and in the process, they will discover the true identity of him who looks back from the mirror.
If you wish to win the biggest battle of life then do not break the smallest and simplest basics of life.
If you do not have what the common people has, then search inside, you must have got the most extra-ordinary thing which is unique to world.
Chinmay Joshi
Monday, June 30, 2008
Orkut Profile 4
Hello
This is Chinmay.
Confessions of my mind!
Love life:
I need to prove myself before I could actually make it to some final decision. Love can make you reach heights, it can inspire your but surely too much of it can spoil you also.
If you dont get the person you like, it means that you have some more things to do before you fall in.
My Friends:
I have very few friends. Actually friends do have a lot of value in my life. So it might be the thing that I cherish all those valuables who are my friends. I am very choosy kind of person. My friend needs to really earn me and so do I. I try to earn and allow respect & Trust. My friendship generally dont base on timepass.
My Boss:
I have never liked the mentality of my boss. I cant live in 2*2 box mentality. I need free play ground to explore things and my strengths. My boss is perfect blend of political qualities. He can bust you any moment just to release his pressure. So your job is always at stake when you work with people like him.
My Relatives:
I only like those relatives which can speak to you as good as a friend can. Other I totally Ignore. In general mentality of relatives is carry on with relations. I just dont believe this concept.
My thinking:
Generally thinking makes lot of difference. I am always odd man out in terms of thinking. I generally dont do what others are doing. I learn from what others are doing and do by my own way. Thinking is what makes the difference. He who can think sound can creat miracles and can be too dangerous also.. its both ways. Choice remains upto oneself.
One may have 100 chances to intentionally take undue benefit out of situations but it needs Character to make things good rather than taking advantage.
Monster is actually a Professional inside. He just needs to fall in Love to create MIRACLES!!
I am not backed by lots of well wishers because of non-traditional thinking. But thats a gift in disguise. I, with Will make majority.
I have been sorrounded by few well wishers also. I always get energy from their wishes. I generally strive to make it upto their expectations. They dont expect things for them. They expect for my good. I need to back them.
I dont know how much I want, I think I want infinite. Sometimes creative thirst can make you reach dream destinations.
Sometimes words can make things better than actions and vice versa. One must make use of both properly.
When I am Captain of winning battle, I generally run away from all celebrations. I need to meditate after all battles.When I am part of Losing team, I generally encourage people and try to make things better.
My testimonials may be highly influenced and over-rated by my few interactions with the people.
There is always indecision between needs and wants. Needs are sufficient and wants are extravagant. No matter what you want but what you need, you always get that. (by Chinmay)
Earlier, I would use to get angry very quickly but now I have got huge control over my anger. I walk on edge, thats too dangerous sometimes. Its highly sophisticated new generation processor fitted inside me. So its obvious that acclaimatisation of situations sometimes make it work at higher heat.. hehehe
Lastly, I always like to give Thanks.
Thanks to Parents for giving such wonderful Life.
To Friends who have always given me company at bad times.
To Wel Wishers, who have always been with me without disclosure.
To Life, which teaches me lots of things.
To God, who has trusted me and given me package of good stuffs.
Thanks to all who have reached to my heart!
Looking forward for more.
Regards
This is Chinmay.
Confessions of my mind!
Love life:
I need to prove myself before I could actually make it to some final decision. Love can make you reach heights, it can inspire your but surely too much of it can spoil you also.
If you dont get the person you like, it means that you have some more things to do before you fall in.
My Friends:
I have very few friends. Actually friends do have a lot of value in my life. So it might be the thing that I cherish all those valuables who are my friends. I am very choosy kind of person. My friend needs to really earn me and so do I. I try to earn and allow respect & Trust. My friendship generally dont base on timepass.
My Boss:
I have never liked the mentality of my boss. I cant live in 2*2 box mentality. I need free play ground to explore things and my strengths. My boss is perfect blend of political qualities. He can bust you any moment just to release his pressure. So your job is always at stake when you work with people like him.
My Relatives:
I only like those relatives which can speak to you as good as a friend can. Other I totally Ignore. In general mentality of relatives is carry on with relations. I just dont believe this concept.
My thinking:
Generally thinking makes lot of difference. I am always odd man out in terms of thinking. I generally dont do what others are doing. I learn from what others are doing and do by my own way. Thinking is what makes the difference. He who can think sound can creat miracles and can be too dangerous also.. its both ways. Choice remains upto oneself.
One may have 100 chances to intentionally take undue benefit out of situations but it needs Character to make things good rather than taking advantage.
Monster is actually a Professional inside. He just needs to fall in Love to create MIRACLES!!
I am not backed by lots of well wishers because of non-traditional thinking. But thats a gift in disguise. I, with Will make majority.
I have been sorrounded by few well wishers also. I always get energy from their wishes. I generally strive to make it upto their expectations. They dont expect things for them. They expect for my good. I need to back them.
I dont know how much I want, I think I want infinite. Sometimes creative thirst can make you reach dream destinations.
Sometimes words can make things better than actions and vice versa. One must make use of both properly.
When I am Captain of winning battle, I generally run away from all celebrations. I need to meditate after all battles.When I am part of Losing team, I generally encourage people and try to make things better.
My testimonials may be highly influenced and over-rated by my few interactions with the people.
There is always indecision between needs and wants. Needs are sufficient and wants are extravagant. No matter what you want but what you need, you always get that. (by Chinmay)
Earlier, I would use to get angry very quickly but now I have got huge control over my anger. I walk on edge, thats too dangerous sometimes. Its highly sophisticated new generation processor fitted inside me. So its obvious that acclaimatisation of situations sometimes make it work at higher heat.. hehehe
Lastly, I always like to give Thanks.
Thanks to Parents for giving such wonderful Life.
To Friends who have always given me company at bad times.
To Wel Wishers, who have always been with me without disclosure.
To Life, which teaches me lots of things.
To God, who has trusted me and given me package of good stuffs.
Thanks to all who have reached to my heart!
Looking forward for more.
Regards
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
Orkut Profile 3
Hi
This is Chinmay.
About my love life:
I have had lots of crushes in my life. But none of them came up with any type of relation. (Even some of them were never even close to friendship).
I strongly believe that, there cant be friendship between a Handsome guy and a Beautiful chick. Sadly the emotion plays part. hehehe..
Right these days, I have found someone from whom I am borrowing some lightning energy.
About my Boss:
I work at one respectable organization. (Name undisclosed for security purpose)
anyways.. So my boss has Big eyes and he has habit of moving his neck every 3 seconds. So if you have seen him stable for 2 seconds, at next moment you will see a unique action of neck and sholders which cant be copied by even he himself..(actually every time he makes it so differently that its impossible for he himself to repeat it).
My boss thinks that eating "Almond" increases memory, so he advises every single person to eat those. Even peons, substaff and we all and may be MD also.
He is perfect example of doing a single step work in 100 steps and after that expecting a 'pat on back' award for not doing the same work by few steps more.
He has asked every single employee of the company about the RESOLUTION of doing any activity or process. I am sure in his diary he must have formed Resolutions for going to Washroom.
He also tought me how to initiate mail and involve such person in that, so that they can fight on the issue and in the process we can buy some more time for pending work and then bagging award for doing work in record time.
He has typical habit of saying "This one" atleast once in every line. The use of these two words makes his sentences absolute blast for laughs (which we are not allowed in front of him). Also sometimes those sentences gets double meaning if given some proper "bad" logic.
He feels that all the people around him are beaurocrats and all are working staff of parliament which he calls "Mantralay".
Some good things about him are:
He has a lot fan following him, which want to take fun by remaing a way out of range.
Also when he is not around, all earlier affected parties will ask "Where is he?" This is called popularity in negative role.
I do admire his strong memory that he must be eating "Almonds" regularly.
First of all looking at such a picture having all type scripts, I was truly frightened. I took some comments as serious insults.
But then one day after having a word with well wisher, I took the same stand against my boss.
Things then turned out a little fine than earlier.
with all due respect to all his lovers (if any) i wish to end this up here.
My life:
I have lost my match box. The day I find it, be assured there will be lots of lamps lighting. Because I believe in lighting lamps. Sometimes you need someone to show you where to search for the matchbox. As soon as you get the right person for indication... your lost match box is surely going to be yours again.
Not everything is told by words. lots of things can be made by Actions. But surely soft words can save lot of Actions.
World is defined by letter / word, "I"/"Eye". Every "I" / "Eye" has seperate definition for / in World.
This is Chinmay.
About my love life:
I have had lots of crushes in my life. But none of them came up with any type of relation. (Even some of them were never even close to friendship).
I strongly believe that, there cant be friendship between a Handsome guy and a Beautiful chick. Sadly the emotion plays part. hehehe..
Right these days, I have found someone from whom I am borrowing some lightning energy.
About my Boss:
I work at one respectable organization. (Name undisclosed for security purpose)
anyways.. So my boss has Big eyes and he has habit of moving his neck every 3 seconds. So if you have seen him stable for 2 seconds, at next moment you will see a unique action of neck and sholders which cant be copied by even he himself..(actually every time he makes it so differently that its impossible for he himself to repeat it).
My boss thinks that eating "Almond" increases memory, so he advises every single person to eat those. Even peons, substaff and we all and may be MD also.
He is perfect example of doing a single step work in 100 steps and after that expecting a 'pat on back' award for not doing the same work by few steps more.
He has asked every single employee of the company about the RESOLUTION of doing any activity or process. I am sure in his diary he must have formed Resolutions for going to Washroom.
He also tought me how to initiate mail and involve such person in that, so that they can fight on the issue and in the process we can buy some more time for pending work and then bagging award for doing work in record time.
He has typical habit of saying "This one" atleast once in every line. The use of these two words makes his sentences absolute blast for laughs (which we are not allowed in front of him). Also sometimes those sentences gets double meaning if given some proper "bad" logic.
He feels that all the people around him are beaurocrats and all are working staff of parliament which he calls "Mantralay".
Some good things about him are:
He has a lot fan following him, which want to take fun by remaing a way out of range.
Also when he is not around, all earlier affected parties will ask "Where is he?" This is called popularity in negative role.
I do admire his strong memory that he must be eating "Almonds" regularly.
First of all looking at such a picture having all type scripts, I was truly frightened. I took some comments as serious insults.
But then one day after having a word with well wisher, I took the same stand against my boss.
Things then turned out a little fine than earlier.
with all due respect to all his lovers (if any) i wish to end this up here.
My life:
I have lost my match box. The day I find it, be assured there will be lots of lamps lighting. Because I believe in lighting lamps. Sometimes you need someone to show you where to search for the matchbox. As soon as you get the right person for indication... your lost match box is surely going to be yours again.
Not everything is told by words. lots of things can be made by Actions. But surely soft words can save lot of Actions.
World is defined by letter / word, "I"/"Eye". Every "I" / "Eye" has seperate definition for / in World.
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